Course Content
Module 1: Introduction to Mental Health
• Lesson 1.1: What is Mental Health? o Understanding the basics of mental health and its importance. • Lesson 1.2: Identifying and Naming Emotions o Exploring common emotions and how to recognize them in ourselves and others.
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Module 2: Managing Emotions
• Lesson 2.1: Understanding Stress and Anxiety o What stress and anxiety feel like and why they happen. • Lesson 2.2: Strategies for Managing Emotions o Practical tools and techniques to manage emotions in a healthy way.
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Module 3: Building Resilience
• Lesson 3.1: What is Resilience? o Understanding resilience and why it’s important for mental health. • Lesson 3.2: Building Self-Confidence o Activities and practices that help boost self-confidence and resilience.
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Module 4: Supporting Others
• Lesson 4.1: How to Support Friends and Peers o Learning how to be a good friend and support others who might be struggling. • Lesson 4.2: Seeking Help and Support o Knowing when and how to seek help from trusted adults or friends.
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Module 5: Promoting Mental Well-Being
• Lesson 5.1: Everyday Practices for Mental Well-Being o Incorporating mental health practices into daily life. • Lesson 5.2: Creating a Supportive Environment o How to foster a positive and supportive environment at home and school.
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An Open Discussion on Mental Health: A Kids Edition | Understanding Emotions and Building Resilience
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Lecture Notes


1. Introduction to Friendship and Support

What It Means to Be a Good Friend:

  • A good friend is someone who is kind, trustworthy, and supportive. They listen, share, and stand by you, especially during tough times.

Why Supporting Friends Is Important:

  • Everyone faces challenges at some point, and having a supportive friend can make a big difference. Being there for someone else not only helps them but also strengthens the bond of friendship.

2. Key Qualities of a Good Friend

1. Listening:

  • What It Is: Paying close attention when your friend talks, without interrupting or thinking about what you’re going to say next.
  • How It Helps: Listening shows that you care about what your friend is going through and helps them feel heard and valued.

2. Empathy:

  • What It Is: Understanding and sharing the feelings of your friend, even if you haven’t experienced the same thing.
  • How It Helps: Empathy allows you to connect with your friend’s emotions and provide comfort and support that meets their needs.

3. Trustworthiness:

  • What It Is: Being reliable and keeping your friend’s confidences. It means your friend can count on you to be there and not share their secrets.
  • How It Helps: Trust is the foundation of any strong friendship. It allows friends to feel safe and secure when sharing personal thoughts and feelings.

4. Encouragement:

  • What It Is: Offering positive words and support to help your friend feel more confident and motivated.
  • How It Helps: Encouragement can boost your friend’s self-esteem and help them overcome challenges.

5. Being There During Tough Times:

  • What It Is: Supporting your friend when they’re going through something difficult, whether it’s by offering a listening ear, helping with a problem, or just spending time together.
  • How It Helps: Knowing that they have someone to lean on can make tough times easier for your friend.

3. How to Support a Friend Who Might Be Struggling

1. Recognizing the Signs:

  • Signs Your Friend Might Be Struggling:
    • Changes in behavior, like becoming quieter or more withdrawn.
    • Seeming sad, anxious, or angry more often than usual.
    • Losing interest in activities they used to enjoy.
  • What to Do:
    • Gently ask if they’re okay and let them know you’ve noticed they seem different.
    • Be patient and give them time to open up.

2. Offering Help:

  • How to Offer Support:
    • Ask your friend what they need or how you can help.
    • Sometimes just being there to listen is enough, but if they need more, be ready to assist.
  • When to Involve an Adult:
    • If your friend is dealing with something serious, like feeling very sad for a long time, thinking about hurting themselves, or being bullied, it’s important to tell a trusted adult.

3. Staying Connected:

  • How to Stay in Touch:
    • Check in regularly, even if it’s just to say hello or send a message.
    • Invite your friend to join activities or spend time together, but understand if they need space.

4. Encouraging Professional Help:

  • When Professional Help Is Needed:
    • If your friend’s struggles are affecting their daily life and well-being, encourage them to talk to a counselor, teacher, or another trusted adult.
  • How to Bring It Up:
    • Suggest it in a caring way, like, “I care about you, and I think talking to someone might really help.”

4. Case Studies

Case Study 1: Supporting a Friend Who Feels Left Out

  • Scenario: Sarah notices that her friend, Ben, has been sitting alone during lunch and not joining in during recess. He seems quieter than usual and doesn’t laugh at jokes like he used to.
  • Discussion Points:
    • What signs suggest that Ben might be struggling?
    • How can Sarah approach Ben to offer her support?
    • What can Sarah do to help Ben feel included again?

Case Study 2: Encouraging a Friend to Talk to an Adult

  • Scenario: Alex confides in his friend, Zoe, that he’s been feeling really down and even thought about skipping school because he feels so overwhelmed. Zoe wants to help but isn’t sure what to do.
  • Discussion Points:
    • What steps should Zoe take to support Alex?
    • How can Zoe encourage Alex to talk to a trusted adult or counselor?
    • Why is it important for Zoe to involve an adult in this situation?

5. Activities to Practice Being a Good Friend

1. Role-Playing Scenarios:

  • Activity: In small groups, have students role-play different scenarios where they practice being a good friend and offering support. For example, one student can act as someone who is feeling sad, while another practices listening and offering help.
  • How It Helps: Role-playing helps students practice empathy, listening, and support skills in a safe and guided environment.

2. Friendship Journals:

  • Activity: Have students keep a “Friendship Journal” where they reflect on their friendships, how they’ve supported friends, and how they can be even better friends in the future.
  • How It Helps: This encourages self-reflection and helps students think about ways to strengthen their friendships.

3. “Compliment Circle”:

  • Activity: Students sit in a circle and take turns giving each other compliments or words of encouragement. The focus is on positive and supportive communication.
  • How It Helps: This activity fosters a positive environment and teaches students the value of uplifting others.

6. Online Resources for Further Information


7. End-of-Lecture Quiz

Multiple Choice Questions:

  1. What is one key quality of a good friend?

    • A) Interrupting when they’re talking
    • B) Listening carefully without interrupting
    • C) Keeping secrets from them
    • Answer: B) Listening carefully without interrupting
      Rationale: Listening is an important quality in a friendship because it shows you care about what your friend is saying and helps them feel valued.
  2. What should you do if a friend is struggling with something serious, like feeling very sad for a long time?

    • A) Keep it a secret
    • B) Ignore it
    • C) Encourage them to talk to a trusted adult
    • Answer: C) Encourage them to talk to a trusted adult
      Rationale: When a friend is dealing with something serious, it’s important to involve a trusted adult who can provide the right support and help.
  3. Which of the following is a good way to support a friend who feels left out?

    • A) Exclude them from activities
    • B) Invite them to join in activities and spend time together
    • C) Ignore them until they feel better
    • Answer: B) Invite them to join in activities and spend time together
      Rationale: Including your friend in activities can help them feel valued and connected, which is important when they are feeling left out.

Short Answer Question:

  1. Describe a situation where you might need to support a friend, and explain how you could do it.
    • Answer: If my friend is feeling nervous about starting a new school, I could support them by listening to their concerns, reassuring them that it’s okay to feel nervous, and offering to help them explore the new school together. I could also introduce them to other friends to help them feel more comfortable.
      Rationale: This answer demonstrates understanding of how to provide emotional support and practical help to a friend who is facing a challenging situation.

These lecture notes provide a comprehensive guide to being a good friend and supporting others who might be struggling. The case studies and activities offer practical ways for students to develop these skills, while the quiz helps reinforce the key concepts discussed.